FeaturedGilmore Girls: Medicine for the Colonial Mother Wound

If you’ve ever had a conversation with Yetunde and I about content, then there’s a 99.9% chance ‘Gilmore Girls’ came up.

I am Lorelai, Lorelai is I. But somehow she has been able to overcome her parental trauma in order to have a thriving life. In order to be proud of herself. To enjoy true emotional intimacy with her daughter.

There are very few shows which open my heart chakra like ‘Gilmore Girls’ does. ‘Queen Sugar’ is the only neck-and-neck.

I’m watching the episode right now in which Richard, Lorelai’s father goes to the hospital. Season 1, Episode 10.

Her mother is screaming at the hospital staff about how her uncle built the hospital and Lorelai comes in sweet and cheery. She convinces the Nurse to do exactly what Emily—Lorelai’s mother—has been trying to get the Nurse to do all along: to find out what is happening with Richard.

You know I can’t help but think about the British monarchy when I think about the Gilmore family. The way the monarchy’s been able to export their colonial ways of being across the planet so swiftly and so powerfully.

Emily and Richard are just as upper-class Hartford as they are British “nobility” as they are African parents. It’s mind-blowing for me to feel like I’m watching my parents while immersed in a story about a rich white girl who ran away from home when she had a baby at 16.

The family she’s been able to build in her faraway town of Fantasyland characters is as African as any village you can name. Everyone has their own unique identity. Everyone—for the most part—takes care of each other. There are rituals and customs and rules and you must abide by them if you are to remain in the Village.

They all help look after Lorelai’s daughter, who is the crown jewel of the town—and the show—as though she were their own child.

It’s amazing to me how Gilmore Girls can traverse a plane of identity variations and speak to every single type of American—almost—and speak to so many African characters. I watch it every chance I get. Every time I want a pick-me-up and a hug. And when I want to be in great company.

I invite you to watch it with me on Friday, May 12, in anticipation of our Mother’s Day Brunch on May 13. This show also is profound medicine for the Colonial Mother Wound, which I’ll talk more about in a future post.

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FeaturedStorytelling as a Nation Building Apparatus

Join us for Storytelling as Nation Building, a talk with leading Nigerian writers on the eve of Nigeria’s 2023 election.

Nigeria Influences the Black Globe

As the epicenter of both Black genius and Black depravity, the fate of Nigeria will ultimately impact every Black person on the planet. On the eve of Nigeria’s 2023 election, one of the most anticipated in history, prominent Nigerian storytellers will discuss the power of storytelling as a nation-building apparatus in a panel hosted by the Yale Nigerian Students Association alongside NOIR FEST.

Featuring: Lande Yoosuf, Caleb Femi and David Hundeyin. Moderated by Olori Lolade Aliyu-Siyonbola

Join leading Nigerian storytellers for a powerful talk on nation building here

The State of the Nation

2020’s global END SARS Movement culminated in the Lekki Tollgate Massacre. The Nigerian government opened fire on peaceful protesters, murdering several innocent youth. This devastation catalyzed a powerful new wave of political engagement from Nigeria’s Gen Z & Millennials, who launched and re-launched a number of political organizations with an eye on the 2023 election.

These efforts were expected to deliver sweeping changes across the country with the upcoming election, but the country continues to devolve deeper into chaos as the election nears. Cash scarcity, fuel scarcity, soaring prices are just some of the devastations affecting everyday Nigerians.

How can this generation live up to its mandate as the “Turning Point Generation” , transforming the on-ground reality into the Black paradise so many of us dream of? We believe storytelling has a tremendous role to play.

David Hundeyin, Investigative Journalist & Founder of West Africa Weekly. Also Distinguished James Currey Fellow at Cambridge University.

The Role of Stories

Across the ocean–and across the globe–Nigerian talent continues to drive creative movements in music, fine art, fashion, tech and many more industries, with their impact felt across races and generations. The story they collectively tell is in sharp contrast to the suffering of everyday Nigerians, yet it is deliberately creating new possibilities, forging new partnerships that ultimately make a difference on ground.

This is how storytelling shapes our future.

Lande Yoosuf, Author of Ko-Foe, Producer, Filmmaker and Co-Founder of Black Film Space.

As noted in the HarperCollins anthology, Of this Our Country—which inspired this panel, telling the story of Nigeria is a national project in which many voices convey their personal experience.

There is no singular Nigerian narrative. With that same thinking, it follows that the story of Nigeria’s Liberated future too lies in the voices of all of us. It is national project evoking our dreams for the land that birthed a trillion bold stories.

Caleb Femi is an author, film-maker, photographer, and former young people’s laureate for London.

So Nigerian a practice, storytelling would seem the perfect salve for a nation in turmoil. Through the eyes of prominent Nigerian storytellers, we’ll explore the historical impact of the discipline on Nigeria’s political landscape and the possibilities it holds for shaping the future of the world’s most populous and impactful Black nation.

Join us in person for free at WLH on Yale’s campus, or online via Zoom by getting a free ticket here.

FeaturedNOIR FEST Tix are LIVE!

NOIR FEST WEEK: Tour of Black NY will be an unforgettable week of high-vibrational experiences driving economic power to Black businesses through the joy of creativity.

Join us for watch parties, Black Genius interview and more experiences to open up your mind body Spirit and connect you to your highest tribe.

Get tickets here!

FeaturedOur Top Five #BlackonNetflix – Shows and films for you to watch this weekend!

I guess the Netflix algorithm has figured out that I only really watch high-quality Black content with aspirational characters that make me feel good and hopeful about the Black world. Every time I log on lately, there seems to be some new content that fits my criteria so I’m eager to share with those who have similar taste to mine, or are looking for better Black content on Netflix.

The below are new in the US, but some may be streaming in the UK and parts of Africa as well.

My favorite high-quality, aspirational Black shows and films on Netflix for this week are:

1. Siempre Bruja (Always a Witch)

Everybody knows I loved season 1 of this show, it was such an adventure! Just seeing a breathtakingly beautiful Black Colombiana sold it for me. But then she was intelligent and honest, with some of the same superpowers I’m trying to master? Slam dunk. I get what people are saying about her romance with her owner, but for me, her character is worth watching in spite of that. I don’t pay that white boy no mind.

If you’re a sucker for stunning chocolate heroines with superpowers, Siempre Bruja will certainly leave you thirsting for more. Watch it with me this weekend then tell me what you think in the comments.

No embeddable trailer, so see it here.

2. Queen Sono

Black woman kicking ass all over town? I’m with it. The trailer is fire! Here’s the boilerplate description from Google: “A highly trained South African spy takes on her most dangerous mission yet while facing changing relationships in her personal life.”

Watch Trailer:

3. They’ve Gotta Have Us

A three-part series on the history of Black cinema. Very eye-opening as it highlights great films that most of us would never have heard of, details the many behind the scenes movements that got us to our current Black film renaissance. Robert Townsend and Harry Belafonte made the series for me, but all the subjects gave us so much wisdom and energy.

Watch Trailer:

4. Love Jacked

Corny but cute, a lighthearted Saturday-afternoon watch that you can re-watch any time you want to forget about your problems and holler laughing. Read my review here.

Watch Trailer:

5. Kasala

Kasala is a dope Lagos-based comedy; we screened at Yale back in 2018. I couldn’t confirm which countries it’s streaming in other than Nigeria and South Africa. Tag Netflix if it doesn’t show up for you and you’d like to see it in your country.

Watch Trailer:

Been on Netflix:

She Did That, the landmark documentary on Black women entrepreneurs, is a recent add from earlier this month. It’s still on Netflix, so watch it if you haven’t. Hell watch it again if you have, it’s worth a rewatch! Trailer here.

Also, in case you missed it, Netflix has also picked up Coming to America, Bad Boys, Rush Hour II and the Pursuit of Happyness.

Not a Black show, but definitely Black-adjacent and a seemingly fun watch, Gentefied.

We’d love to better track Black content on Netflix, so please post and hashtag #BlackonNetflix if you see high quality content that you think more of our people need to see. Netflix cancels shows based on viewership, so it’s super important that we support the content we love. As a general rule, make noise about any Black products you love.

If you’ve watched any of the content in this post, please let us know what you think in the comments. If not, go watch them this weekend and come back and tell us here. You can also chat with us on IG.

One love.

Meet Lande Yoosuf

Meet Lande Yoosuf, a speaker on our panel Story Telling as Nation Building.

Lande Yoosuf is a Nigerian-American novelist, screenwriter, filmmaker and cofounder of the non-profit organization Black Film Space. She has 15 years of production, development and casting experience in non-fiction programming, and has worked with several networks, including MTV, A&E Networks, NBC, WEtv, and Bravo. Her short film, “Privilege Unhinged”, screened at the Martha’s Vineyard African American Film Festival, Big Apple Film Festival, the DC Black Film Festival, aired on AMC’s Shorts TV and was a finalist for “Insecure” star Jean Elie’s short film contest under his company banner, Bassett House.

Yoosuf’s second film, “Second Generation Wedding” screened at the Bronze Lens Film Festival, Black Girls Rock! Film Festival, and inspired the novel, “Ko-Foe.” She has an affinity for telling stories that explore media influence, sociology, gender/race relations, pop culture and self-image themes. Lande is currently developing a mixed slate of feature films, documentaries and television pilots through her production company, One Scribe Media.

Yoosuf directed Antu Yacob’s dramatic short film “Love in Submission”, which screened at the Afrikana Film Festival, Noire Film Festival and the New York African Film Festival. The film was accepted into the “Emerging Black Filmmaker Film Collection”, screened in over 60 theaters throughout the country, and was part of a diversity case study discussion about Hollywood at the 2021 Sundance Film Festival.  

As Co-founder and Partnerships Director of Black Film Space, Lande works to contribute to expanded control, ownership and media management for content creators of African descent across all cinematic formats and content platforms. She served as a host, workshop facilitator, speaker and moderator for events with organizations like ARRAY, HBO, ABFF, BAM’s New Voices in Black Cinema, The Root and many others. Her speaking engagements received coverage from outlets such as The New York Times.

Lande earned a Bachelors of Arts from Brooklyn College in Television and Radio, and honed her writing skills through classes taught by Jackson Taylor, the Associate Director at The New School’s Graduate Writing Program. In her spare time, she loves to sing, read, travel and spend time with her loved ones. She reps her Nigerian background proudly and holds down her hometown, the world-famous republic of Brooklyn, New York.

Stay In touch with Lande @LandeYoosuf and @OneScribeMedia on all social media platforms, or through her website www.onescribemedia.com. 

Learn more about Lande’s non-profit organization Black Film Space through the handle @Blackfilmspace, or at www.blackfilmspace.com.

If you would like to view Lande’s director reel, please do so here.

Meet Lande at the panel here.

Meet Caleb Femi

Meet Caleb Femi, a speaker on our panel Storytelling as Nation Building.

Caleb is a poet and director. His debut collection, Poor, was published in 2020 by Penguin Press. He has written and directed short films for the BBC, Channel 4, Bottega Veneta and Louis Vuitton.

A former Young People’s Laureate, Caleb won the Forward Prize for Best First Collection (2021) and has been shortlisted for the Rathbones Folio Prize (2021), and longlisted for the Jhalak Prize (2021)

He has been featured in the Dazed 100 list of the next generation shaping youth culture.

Meet Caleb via the Storytelling panel here.

Meet David Hundeyin

Meet David Hundeyin, a speaker on our panel, Storytelling as Nation Building.


David Hundeyin is from the Ogu ethnic group in Nigeria. He is a writer, investigative journalist and broadcaster whose work has appeared on CNN, The Africa Report, Al Jazeera and The Washington Post. His work as a satirist on ‘The Other News,’ Nigeria’s answer to The Daily Show was featured in the New Yorker Magazine and in the Netflix documentary ‘Larry Charles’ Dangerous World of Comedy.’ David is currently a James Currey Fellow at Cambridge University, and a member of the SafeBox Network run by Forbidden Stories, which safekeeps the work of journalists in danger.

For his brave and audacious work, David has been nominated for several awards and grants:

In 2018, he was nominated by the US State Department for the 2019 Edward Murrow program for journalists under the International Visitors Leadership Program (IVLP).

In February 2021, he won the People Journalism Prize for Africa 2020 for my work unraveling predatory legislation that was being rushed through Nigeria’s House of Representatives.

In June 2021, he was selected as Africa’s only representative on a list of 12 writers and journalists from around the world chosen to take part in Substack’s inaugural $1 million Substack Local program.

In December, he was named the GRC (Governance Risk Compliance) Anti FinCrime Reporter Of The Year at Nigeria’s GRC Awards. Most recently in March 2022, his OSINT investigation “Who Killed Hiny Umoren?” made the global shortlist at the 2022 Sigma Awards for data journalism.

You can find him tweeting his uncut and uncensored thoughts from the handle @DavidHundeyin.

We look forward to hosting this brave storyteller on our panel. Get your tix here.

Announcing the ‘Tour of Black New York’

Pictured above: Aunts et Uncles

NOIR FEST WEEK is coming up, from Feb 24th to Mar 3rd and as the Chief Curator here, I had to use this opportunity to highlight the best parts of my favorite city in the world.

I came to Brooklyn in 2006 with nothing but a carry-on suitcase and a hopeful heart. In just a few years, I gained a husband, a child, a 3-bedroom townhouse and an incredible community. My child and community continued with me on the journey when I left NY for years to do grad school at Yale and Cambridge, traveling much of the world along the way. Now, returning to this city that gave me so much life and love, I still see it as the best city in the world, and I need more people to see it the way I do.

I hung out with some well-off Nigerian American friends visiting NY from Austin one summer who trashed New York’s food and whose plans for their family tour included the Met but not MoCADA, pizza but not ackee and saltfish, and they had no clue about the African cultural presence in NY. I was appalled. I knew I had to do something. It took a while, but that something will be my Tour of Black NY, available soon on Airbnb experiences and launching Feb 25 during NOIR FEST WEEK.

That Lover Called NYC

I have an intimate love affair with this city. When I first moved here, I heard a quote that the best way to know a city is to get lost in it. I did that over and over and over again. I’m a walker, and I would walk for hours, getting lost in Brooklyn and Manhattan every single chance I got. I also worked many different jobs in this city, jobs that called for extensive travel across boroughs.

What this led me to was discoveries of communities that I couldn’t have otherwise found, gems that color the city with a filter that is unapologetically high-vibrational, creative, visionary and worldmaking. And unapologetically Black. For some these might be things that are duh about New York, but for many as I’ve seen, there is complete ignorance about the power, beauty and high-vibration of certain elements of Black NY. I feel a responsibility to share and document these treasures while they are accessible and available to us all.

What’s There to See?

First is food. I don’t eat garbage food, so just know that this is a tour for folks who like to nourish their bodies with premium, high-vibrational foods and energy, getting service with LOVE. I’ll share the three restaurants that I can not fail to visit any time I’m in BK.

I’ll also share where I get my creative juices flowing, where I get my soul nourishment, who’s high vibrational adornment I can’t get enough of and more. To experience social innovation through high-quality food, art, music, fashion, spatial design and much more from the best of Black-owned NY, this tour—and it’s accompanying Tour of Black New York Database—will become your go-to.

The database will document high quality Black NY businesses, non-profits and social enterprises. Our primary focus for now is to direct you to where you can get products, services and experiences that will upgrade your life.

History in the Making

We also want you to connect with the AMAZING individuals that sacrifice so much to build businesses that truly upgrade lives, and the planet, in whatever ways they can. On the live walking tour, you’ll learn a brief history of these businesses and their impact on the communities they serve while you experience their most amazing offerings.

We’ll also use the opportunity to explore the history of Black Brooklyn and of how gentrification has impacted Black wealth.

I’ll also point out historical sites, streets named for slave-owners, and areas that were or are currently predominantly held by Black land-owners and where significant historical moments occurred.

One of my primary goals with this tour is to add to the mosaic of Brooklyn’s Blackness by excavating the stories of recent African and Caribbean immigrants who have contributed immensely to Brooklyn’s culture, building on legendary Black American contributions.

To experience the first Tour, join us at NOIR FEST WEEK for the Saturday, Feb 25 tour!

We’ll start at 11AM at Meme’s Healthy Nibbles (707 Nostrand Ave btw Park & Sterling Pl). Dress warm, wear comfortable walking shoes and bring some funds to invest in Black owned businesses. You will also need an unlimited Metrocard.

To know about future tours (and get other perks), join our mailing list here.

Stay blessed!

Olori

NOIR FEST WEEK: Tour of Black New York

We’re thrilled to invite you to join us for NOIR FEST WEEK. Closing out Black History Month, NFW will be an unprecedented opportunity for collaboration across organizations and communities committed to the upliftment of the Black race and the creation of a new timeline in which formerly marginalized communities rule the world. You get tickets and find partnership opportunities here.

NOIR FEST was created to accelerate Black Liberation through the curation of aspirational and visionary films with a visually striking aesthetic. Since our 2019 launch on the Yale campus, we have seen many of our highlighted artists gain major distribution. By expanding our imaginaries to include infinite game-changing possibilities for Black people, NOIR FEST is rewiring Black minds, hearts and bodies for a Liberated future, experienced now in the present.

The Experience

The NOIR FEST WEEK experience, will include watch parties, screenings, dialogues with worldmaking visionaries and a Tour of Black New York. The festivities will begin on Feb 24 on Yale campus with a dialogue on Nigerian storytelling, followed by a tour of legendary Black businesses in New York on Feb 25; an interfaith Portal Journey and dialogue exploring the Spirituality of Blackness on Feb 26; an invitation-only focus group for the Brooklyn Arts Council’s DEP project on Feb 28 and a dialogue on Black Wealth on Mar 1.

Black Genius interviews with visionaries from NY African Film Festival, Brooklyn Arts Council, Black Film Space, and Hood Esoterics will open up each day’s events. Watch parties will include classic and contemporary aspirational Black films from NOIR FEST artists, NY African Film Festival, and Black Film Space.

As an expression of our love for New York’s Black-owned businesses, we are launching the Tour of Black New York database to document and promote the best of the City’s Black-owned businesses.

Full Schedule

Friday, Feb 24: Yale Nigerian Students Association – Storytelling as Nation Building

Saturday, Feb 25 (11 AM) : Tour of Black New York

Sunday, Feb 26 (3-6PM) : Hood Esoterics – The Spirituality of Blackness

Tuesday, Feb 28: Brooklyn Arts Council – Creative Focus Group (Invitation only)

Wednesday, Mar 1: Black Wealth

To partner, email team@noirlabs.org

Check back here regularly for updates.

What Should Black People Watch?

Warning: Spoiler Alert!

What the Film?

After binge watching the last season of Blood & Water, I find myself conflicted on the question of what should be the parameters of good Black entertainment. Should everything really be positive? Aspirational? Or do we need a little violence and trauma to balance out the fantastical nature of “fiction”?

Blood & Water is one of the most beautiful pieces of visual art that I’ve ever seen. Visually and literarily up there with Queen Sugar. But the third season took a turn that seems to be consistent with a lot of Black episodic content distributed on major, white-controlled platforms. While the violence rampant in Season 3 of Blood & Water is not nearly as bad as the theatrical ratchetry that Empire became towards the end of its third season, or the slightly insulting storylines that took over Scandal in its last years, there seems to be an arc of Black shows that these exemplify so strongly: the unraveling of strong, semi-aspirational storytelling into a problematic denouement forcing viewers to ask WTF?

Blood & Water is not like The Wire, where there seemed to be almost no happy endings, but it went from primarily uplifting content–with a drama level that was manageable even for a utopian like myself–to leaning very much into the genre known as Black Pain Porn.

A Model for Black Television?

While Blood & Water appears aspirational in its first two seasons, the third season is a quite violent departure.

In case you don’t know, Blood & Water is a South African series produced by Netflix in which a high school student sets out on a quest to identify her sister, who has been missing since birth, as one of the most popular students in her elite high school. From the casting to the costumes, every detail has been carefully thought out and intended for intelligent audiences who will appreciate thorough and appreciable character development, valuable historical references and light but poignant social commentary. If you’re a sucker for gorgeous melanin, this one is a hard one to ignore. 

One of my favorite things about the show is its profound ability to render the nuanced dynamic at the intersection of indigenous African cultural practice and “westernization”. Unlike most of the Nollywood content I’ve consumed, Blood & Water is proudly South African, inviting a thoughtful understanding of the socioeconomic and cultural friction that defines daily life for many South Africans. Queen Sono does this nicely as well. Kunle Afolayan’s Anikulapo and other films, along with earlier films by Tunde Kelani tend to be the exception in a Nollywood too often consumed with the need for western approval; something that South African content appears to be less gripped by.

And So…?

Anikulapo, by Kunle Afolayan, depicts rich village life, with love and strife, in stunning visuals

So what’s my point? I’m asking us to think a bit more deeply about our content and how institutional forces may shape the content and stories that become part of our daily psyche and subconscious emotional environment in the Black world. We need to understand and analyze film and content with a bit more rigor–asking questions like:

  1. Why does strong episodic Black content seem to downturn so drastically around the third season or beyond?
  2. How do the cultural backgrounds of the people funding and directing our content influence the level of violence and trauma present in Black stories?
  3. Is there a need for ongoing bloody violence in shows that initially present as though they will uplift the Black race? Is there sufficient balance between mostly-positive and mostly-negative Black content allowing for Black Pain Porn to continue to be an essential ingredient in widely distributed Black content? 
  4. How can Black storytelling be more intentional about the emotional and psychological effect it has on Black lives without losing touch with reality?

So What Do We Do?

Lovecraft Country’s Afrofuturist storytelling is widely recognized as game-changing.

Many will say, If you don’t like it just stop watching. And Don’t disparage Black content no matter how bad because if we do the powers that be won’t let us have more content. Well these positions are flawed because they fail to understand the profound impact that media and storytelling have on the realities we experience as Black people daily. The more violence we see, the more violence we expect, thus the more violence in our reality. The more trauma we experience–even through “fictional” media–the more we program our genes with the belief in trauma as normalcy.

So what should we watch? From TikTok to YouTube to OWN to CNN, there is a constant conflict between aspirational Black storytelling and Black Pain Porn. If we lived in a world in which Black joy was a dominant experience for People of African Descent, these negative stories wouldn’t do such harm. Because the human trafficking and loss of lives rampant in Season Three of Blood and Water is actually the desperately tragic reality so many African people face, it’s almost as hard to watch it as it is to ignore it. I appreciate that in such stories as Blood & Water and Queen Sugar, the protagonists often win over their antagonists, even if lives are lost in the process. But I just wonder when we will create and produce primarily stories that show us how to eliminate these wicked possibilities, rather than how to deal with them when they come up, as though they must always be part of our reality.

Some of us are realists, some utopians. Ultimately, we will watch what gives us what we need in the moment. But I hope that more of us seek and create storytelling that eliminates the trauma of our oppression and chooses to help us collectively visualize what it could actually be like to be free. Forever.

If you’re making such films, please connect with NOIR FEST.